How to communicate with men so they give you more attention, effort and commitment
What's Inside:
The Psychology
Why his hot-cold behavior keeps you hooked—and how to break free
Word-for-Word Scripts
Exactly what to say when he goes cold, cancels, or breadcrumbs you
Early Warning Signs
Know in week one if he's serious—stop wasting months
4 Complete Parts
Psychology, communication, early dating, and scripts
If this doesn't change how you see men, email [email protected] for a full refund. No questions. You keep the book.
Here's what readers are saying
Miroslava Feria
Mexico
Love This Book
I was dating a guy who didn't want a relationship with me, now I understand it wasn't my fault. Now, I am able to see all the signals.
Catalina
Bulgaria
I Loved the Book
I loved the book, particularly the case studies and the message examples. Really nice addition to everything else!
Adora Riestra
Mexico
Game Changing Book
It changes your perspective about how you approach men and how you feel about yourself. A game changer.
Angela
United States
Perfect & So Very Helpful
Joao reassures that we are the ones doing the choosing - empowering us as daters. Great book!
Alex
United States
The Book Was Amazing
I learned a lot about vulnerability and how men and women are different. Eye-opening.
Liri
United States
One of My Favorite Reads
Joao, you f**king genius!!! So many "aha" moments. I feel more secure and confident!
Anonymous
DM to Joao
"I can't thank you enough"
I used the open ended question and he instantly stopped being dry. Now we're baking cookies 😍
Anna
26, United States
"A powerful psychological tool"
I'm only halfway through and I've already written down 3/4 of my notebook 😭❤️
Alyssa Santos
30, Colorado
"The texting examples in Chapter 9"
Once I got to chapter 7 it got really good. I particularly like the texting examples in Chapter 9.
Christella
Email to Joao
"A must read for all women"
I read the entire book the first day. There are things I've done but knowing now I won't make those mistakes.
Liridona Jashari
Email to Joao
"Words aren't enough"
Words aren't enough to convey how powerful the book is. My mindset has shifted since reading.
Cristina Sanchez
Email to Joao
"I feel in control"
I tested out many things you suggested and I feel in control. Now HE talks about the next time we meet.
Noor Afiza
Email to Joao
"Really helpful"
Great book. Really helpful for my relationship. It works for some technique like scarcity the most.
Iordan Camelia
Italy
Nice One!
The book is cool! I'm really happy I purchased it. Totally recommend! Thank you 🌻
Angela Poels
Netherlands
By Far One of My Favorites
Your book has me completely captivated, I couldn't put it down. So many 'aha' moments.
Deniz Turkistan
Belgium
Masterpiece!
Every step Joao described happened: love bombing, ghosting, coming back. Even my therapist called it a masterpiece.
Anna
Sweden
Can't Wait to Start! 😊
Joao gave me extra material to work with! Great customer service. Thanks 🤗
Kat
Poland
Great Guide
For me, coming out of a long-term relationship, it's the perfect introduction to today's dating world.
Stefanija Sokolovic
Macedonia
Masterpiece
A psychological masterpiece. It helped me recognize patterns I was unknowingly repeating.
Anonymous
DM to Joao
"Already mind-blowing"
I'm in chapter 6 and it's already been mind-blowing. Thank you so much.

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